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I love this reflection! Though I also agree that you're probably being a little tough on younger you. I studied for a year in France and while I didn't stay with a host family, a lot of the brattier observations you're making hit close to home for me!!

When I think about that time now, I think about how scared and shocked I felt, really being away from home the first time and stumbling through a new language. Nothing brings out bratty behavior quite like fear & homesickness, especially when you're a young person trying to be brave!

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“By not making an effort to understand differing cultures and traditions in our travels, we risk misinterpreting and later misrepresenting those customs.” So very true.

Next time in Valencia, knock on the door. 😊

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This was wonderful to read. I had a similar experience but with the French language. Studied it for years and couldn't wait to use it "for real".

Your behavior sounds about right for a twenty year old!

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